"Life will give you whatever experience is most helpful for the evolution of your consciousness. How do you know this is the experience you need? Because this is the experience you are having at this very moment." - Eckhart Tolle
Take a step back from the questioning, the analyzing, the "figuring it out". The universe has a way of unfolding before you with or without your consent. Can you release to the idea that something bigger is in control and knows where to guide you? A power higher that understands where you need to be to grow, evolve and flourish?
I find myself gripping tight to the familiarity and comfort when a voice whispers in my ear, taps on my shoulder, lets me know it's ok to let go of all I have known. The saying goes, when you get to a crossroad in life, take the road less traveled (aka usually the harder/scarier path). A deep breath and courage may be all that you're traveling with. It's enough. What lessons would you learn walking the same path you've been on for miles? A crossroad probably wouldn't have appeared if you were 100% happy with the road you were on and the direction your life was taking you. We can focus on the intimidating energy of change, or switch our perception to one of expansion and experience.